Listening to inner anxiety caused by hidden paradoxes—how to improve your mental performance (2014)

Simon Sijbrands

"How to deal with paradoxes"

People embrace stability and control. When confronted with a problem, we are eager to solve it quickly as we don’t like the inner anxiety that comes with the thought and feelings of having a problem. But today, we live in a world of inevitable anxiety producing paradoxes in which it is not always makes sense to listen to that reflexive inner voice that tells you to make a quick fix. This blog entry addresses ways in dealing with these paradoxes, especially when we are unaware of their existence.

Simon Sijbrands, 2014

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