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Mentor or Martyr? Beware The Rescuer Trap! (2013)

Manfred Kets de Vries

"Are you a mentor or a martyr?"

In this blog entry for Forbes, Manfred Kets de Vries discusses the differences between mentoring and martydom.

Forbes, 2013

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