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Leaders Who Can't Forgive (2013)

Manfred Kets de Vries

"Forgiveness as a business tool"

This blog entry with the Harvard Business Review explores how costly it is to hold on to grudges and how an unforgiving attitude keeps people from moving forward. In a leadership position, these risks are magnified.

Harvard Business Review, 2013

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