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Mentor or Martyr? Beware the Rescuer Trap (2014)

Manfred Kets de Vries

"Unhealthy dependencies prevent leaders from reaching their full potential"

In this article for Human Capital Review, Kets de Vries explores the Rescuer Syndrome—where the need to help becomes a self-serving addiction and—which creates an unhealthy state of dependency and prevents leaders from reaching their full potential.

Human Capital Review, 2014

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